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1. Questions from the book 'Your Mythic Journey' by Sam Keen and Ann Valley-Fox.
- Where did you come from?
- What happens to you when you die?
- What are your duties, your obligations?
- What is taboo and what should you avoid?
- What is your life's vision?
- Whom should you imitate?
- Who are your helpers, guides, allies?
- What is your relationship with animals and nature?
- How satisfied or frustrated are you with your own sexuality?
- Do you like the way you've spent your time so far?
- Where are you going?
- What part has work played in your life?
- What do you value more?
- How valuable would you be without it?
- What personal qualities do you possess that were gifts from previous people no longer living?
- Which people, events and institutions arouse your greatest resentment or anger?
- Who has frustrated, neglected, manipulated, inhibited or repressed you?
- When have you been singled out for special attention?
- Which people have enriched your life?
- What accomplishments, relationships, and moments mean the most to you?
- What are your regrets?
- What have you left undone that you wanted to do?
- What have you done that you wish you hadn't?
- What moods and emotions have dominated your experience of the death of others (grief, anger, fear, relief)?
- Whose death would cause you the greatest sorrow?
- Whose would give you the greatest pleasure?
- Who would care the most if you died?
- When did you discover the limitations in your mother? Father? Best friend? A hero?
- What evil do you wage war against and how?
- How do you clip your wings, prevent yourself from flying, depress yourself?
- Recall your most depressed and desperate times.
- What tricks do you habitually use to heighten your paranoia and increase your isolation?
- What brings you joy?
- Who are you when you dream?
- What do you fear?
- Who has wounded you?
- Whom have you injured?
- How do you deal with guilt?
- Do you need to have enemies? How do you forgive?
- Who are your people, your family?
- What is the source of your power? Your self-esteem?
- What is sacred to you?
- What is worthy of your respect?
- For what or whom would you sacrifice your time, energy, health, or your life